A Self-Care & Experience Planning Platform
Stop Existing. Start Living.
Too many people are trapped in routine same walls, same places, same unfulfilling patterns. You deserve experiences that honor your time, match your standards, and remind you what it feels like to truly live.
Why Create-A-Date Match Plus Exists
People are increasingly isolated not because they lack opportunities to meet others, but because they've stopped engaging with life itself. Trapped within the four walls of their homes and the restrictions of daily work and responsibilities, many are merely existing rather than living.
The solution isn't another way to “find people.” The solution is helping you rediscover what makes life worth living and in doing so, naturally encounter others who've made the same choice to stop existing and start living.
That's why CADMP starts with YOU not other people.
Date Yourself First
Before you can share your life with others, you need to fall in love with your own life.
Discover What Excites You
Explore activities and experiences that light YOU up not what's trending or convenient.
Honor Your Standards
Set your own quality expectations. Your time is sacred spend it on experiences that respect that.
Live Intentionally
Stop letting life happen to you. Become the architect of your own experiences.
From Existing to Living
Just Existing
- ○Same routines, same places, same rut
- ○Settle for whatever's convenient
- ○Waste time on disappointing outings
- ○Let others dictate your experiences
- ○Wonder where your time went
Actually Living ✦
- ✦Discover new experiences that excite you
- ✦Choose quality-verified venues you can trust
- ✦Know quality is guaranteed before you go
- ✦Honor YOUR standards and preferences
- ✦Build a life filled with meaningful moments
Breaking Free from Isolation
Curated activities create organic social interaction without pressure.
Step Outside Your Four Walls
Break free from the restrictions of daily work and responsibilities. Discover quality activities that pull you out of routine and into experiences worth having.
Re-engage with Life
Whether it's a cooking class, exploring a new neighborhood, or trying that restaurant you've been curious about—intentionally engaging with life creates a perspective shift.
Community Emerges Naturally
When you're out living intentionally, you naturally encounter others who've made the same choice. Social interaction becomes a byproduct of engaging with life not a forced goal.
Created by a Therapist Who Believes in Human Flourishing
Rory E. Carothers Sr., LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor • 20+ Years Experience
20-Year U.S. Army Veteran • Founder & CEO
“After 20 years as a therapist, I've seen too many people merely existing going through the motions, settling for mediocre experiences, wondering why life feels empty. The happiest people I've worked with share one thing: they treat their own time as sacred. They plan quality experiences. They honor their own standards.”
“That's why I built CADMP to help everyone live more intentionally. The solution to isolation isn't forcing connections. It's helping people transform their relationship with life itself. When you stop existing and start living, everything changes.”
“Because you deserve a life filled with moments worth having.”
What We Stand For
Self-Worth Through Quality
How you spend your time reflects how you value yourself. Insisting on quality experiences even when alone reinforces healthy self-regard. This isn't about being picky; it's about honoring your own worth.
Intentional Living
When you actively choose how you spend your time rather than passively consuming whatever's available, you move from feeling like life “happens to you” to being the architect of your own experience.
Self-Actualization
Becoming the fullest version of yourself happens through intentional action. When you choose quality experiences that align with your values, you're actively shaping who you're becoming.
Privacy & Respect
Your data is yours. Your journey is yours. We're committed to protecting your information and creating a platform that supports your wellbeing not one that exploits it for engagement metrics.
For Everyone Ready to Live Intentionally
CADMP is NOT a dating app. It's a self-care and experience planning platform for anyone ready to break free from routine.
🌟 Individuals
Planning solo adventures and discovering what lights you up. Date yourself first.
💕 Couples
Breaking out of routines and discovering new quality experiences together.
👥 Friend Groups
Ending the “where should we go?” debates with quality-verified options.
🏢 Corporate Teams
Building genuine team culture through meaningful shared experiences.
Our Vision
We envision a world where people stop merely existing and start truly living. Where quality experiences are the norm, not the exception. Where stepping outside your comfort zone leads to a richer, more intentional life.
CADMP addresses isolation not by creating another way to “meet people,” but by helping you transform your relationship with life itself. When you stop existing and start living choosing quality experiences, honoring your standards, and engaging intentionally with the world isolation dissolves naturally.
The social opportunities that emerge aren't the goal they're the natural consequence of people who've decided to live differently encountering each other in the world.
Ready to Stop Existing?
Join the movement of people choosing to live intentionally. Your quality experiences await.
Start Living Intentionally